By Geoff Fisher 
Despite the gloomy weather and potential sombre subject matter, three visitors joined 30 members last week to hear a talk by Paul Fisher and Jason Davies of Ivan Fisher Funeral Directors. They explained how the business was established in 2005, originally based in Hethersett, later expanding with branches in Aylsham and Hingham.
In the intervening years, society’s attitude towards funerals has changed, with a significant decline in church services. Currently, around 75% of their business is cremations and 25% burials. The cost of an average funeral is now around £4,500.
“Direct” cremations, where no service is involved, are on the increase and account for around 20% of all cremations. There are differing opinions to this approach, prompting Paul to advise that before making any final decision, it is imperative to discuss one’s wishes with family to avoid any unforeseen upsetting reactions.
During an interactive Q&A session, several interesting facts came to light. Following cremations any “metal” pieces, such as replacement joints, etc., remain. Several crematoria recycle these and donate proceeds to charity; for example, St Faiths Crematorium gives to The Clare School, Norwich.
It is also a misapprehension that all donated organs will be utilised. Sadly, only around 40% are used for transplants or research; much depends on the age and cause of death of the donor. Where organs are given a “new life”, the funeral director makes discreet arrangements with the recipient entity, after which the funeral can then take place.
This was a thought-provoking meeting. All agreed there is a reluctance to discuss “death” in any great detail. But doing so openly with loved ones can avoid further distress at an already emotional time.
Reepham WI meets on the third Thursday of every month at 7.30 pm in St Michael’s, Reepham. The next speaker on Thursday 19 March will be Francis Holmes, who will give a talk on “The Story of the Norwich Boot and Shoe Trade”.
Dee Taylor
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Geoff Fisher